Usually, I think an open discussion on virtually any topic is worth having. But I'm having second thoughts.
The more we dwell on some topices, like sex and sensuality, the more confused we become.
When I'm confused, I think it important to keep things simple. "Male and female, He created them."
We are who we are. I believe it extremely important that we acknowledge that and work from there.
I need to be the best male (man) I can be, meaning the best male friend, the best male partner in marriage, in business, in the church. . .whereever.
So, let's keep it simple. It works for me, and a whole lot of people.